i called Verizon to get the ethernet port activated. the guy gave me a hard time saying i need to be on the 100mbps to have ethernet activated! (im paying $60 per month for 75mbps). he got his manager on the line to get approval. after 10mins wait, i was approved. i did not have to configure anything on my netgear r7000 router's side to have internet working once the ONT's ethernet port was activated.
getting  VPN working on netgear was as simple 
1. checking a box to have VPN running on the router. 
2. copy 4 files to my android phone. 
3. install OpenVPN app from Play store
4. after opening OVPN app, i imported the client3.ovpn  file from step 2.
5. for whatever reason OVPN refuses to connect. i had to go to 
http://192.168.1.1/openvpn_crt_check.htm   to update certificates?  i hit the update button  and BAM,  the OVPN app connected to the netgear vpn and it's all good.
6. i was able to view files stored in my home's Kodi shared folder.
very cool! thanks for all your help, especially Mike!!!